Company matters, choose your immediate environment smartly.

Oh man!  It surely does. Trust me,  not saying just because i heard elders telling me this years before but from my own experiences, for i don't truly trust something unless i have explored, understood and learnt it in my own way.

But it's way better to learn from wise rather than wasting time on something that could be learnt easily,  for you have finite time on this planet earth and it's always your call to choose. Be smart.

Some people are way too nice, flexible and adaptable that sometimes they do not even notice that the company they are with is bad for them. Result?  Wastage of time and energy and who would ever even want something like this to happen to them.

Better to always be aware and have realisation about what kind of people are you investing your time in. The immatures or toxic or drama queens or petty downers?  Go, give it a thought for these small things if not properly given a regard could possibly destroy you without your notice in long run. So many people are good at fooling another for many are unknowingly fooling themselves too, sad but true.

For you become subconsciously like the people you spent most of your moments with.
Choose wisely for the minute wasted will never return and it would be later harder for you to break the habit loop you got yourself into because of them.
Are they genuine, do they care for you, do you people really have same values? Are they on same level of consciousness like you? If not, know and respect your boundaries. Leave them, better runnnn! Often times it is also for their best interest. Watch carefully, are they always just coming to pour out the shit that's going on in their own life on you ,also they won't ever let you have your alone time? Do them and yourself a favour. Make them aware that they should indeed have some time with their ownselves to understand things and let you have yours when needed. If they do not understand it in this polite way, cut ties, ignore for someone could probably need a person to go to sometimes but always??  Nope. You're not a bin and they need to tackle their stuff instead of struggling and suffering throughout their lives.Don't worry, no one gives a shit,  there's no such thing as a selfless good deed; many just use others,  the one who has to blame will do so but the right person will understand and always remember the good you did still please for your own sake do it in a limit, reserve your life for things that'll still matter to you in your far future. 

An obsession or an overinvestment in emotion fails us for the simple reason that emotions never last.  Every connection needs some healthy space to breathe, if you see a pattern forming that too a toxic one, stop right there and reflect. Go to the root cause of an emotion, sooner the better. Keep a regular check on your emotions and stuff. 

Better to be alone(in your own company)  than with someone who could possibly be draining for your soul, for such people suck out a lot of energy from us like energy vampires and it is us who should always be in control of our own vibrations.

Do not ever shy away to break bonds, set boundaries where needed for you and only you are responsible for yourself and everything that happens to you. 

You can be nice and still do what's right for your betterment. Know your personality, choose everything accordingly and work on optimizing your nature. Embrace your quirks.