Good life is built with good relationships.

Bring out the good in others and you will automatically bring the good in you.
BE OBSESSIVELY GRATEFUL
After all that i have been, seen and learnt every moral of the story comes down to the meaning of life. How do you know the purpose of your living? The only purpose by which a person can really feel fulfilled is by serving.

An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind.

Giving without expectations. Being kind, even to those who did hurt you in some or the other way down the road because more than anyone they are the ones who should be treated with kindness. Everyone goes down that road at some point in their life where they feel lost .

[KEY POINTS:
1. No one can really hurt an aware person.
2.The people who act harsh for no reason are at a place of confusion, we all have been there so just be kind to them, let them do their thing you move on with yours.
3.Feeling lost is okay, staying there is a choice.]

Relationships take work . 
Meeting someone is a chance, staying connected is a choice.
Real friendships are the one's who were there by your side through all of it, the good and the bad too. It's so same like all of them talk about romantic relationships, actually every relation is not all about fooling around (yeah, friend in deed in the friend in need) but the pillars are respect, trust and being there for each other. Though these are so basic - communication, trust, respect, etc. etc. ; funny how you still don't see much reality or truthfulness now-a-days. Don't let your mal-conditioned brain come in between your way to build healthy relations. Doubts are the by-products of building trust. When you let relations take there natural pace and give them freedom to breathe, love flourishes.

Real Happiness

There's more to life than being happy. 
Intuition is actually a bad thing, if you really are on the right track nothing inside you would disturb you.
Purpose gives true happiness. Find your purpose, make plans how you want to spend your coming years and stick to it. Preserve, commit, work hard, be patient, be true to yourself and nothing will ever block you. It truly is all about mindset. Stop being a victim, take charge. Look up and don't ask why. Want a change? Become the change. You don't like to be told what to do right? but to be an example of what they are asking out of you. So, same implies on you. Be your own hero, prove you to you. Plan, execute and repeat.
Because if you can't be true to yourself, you are ruining the most important relation of your life that is with you. For you can't pour from an empty cup. Yeah, of course you can act and fake as long as you want that you are giving something out to the world and helping ,here i'm talking about the real help, to show real efforts but first by putting the work within and helping yourself by understanding yourself and acting accordingly, saves you a lot of your shit. Be nice to everyone.Understand, we all got our reasons just try and put yourselves in their shoes. You have issues? Most of them would be because of your unresolved issues within . You feel him/her, your parents or anyone on the road didn't act like you wanted? So, honey stop expecting and come out of your pretty little bubble ,you too ain't that perfect and you know that. It fucking scares me to even think that when our parents were around our ages they had us like wow and here we are just trying to take care of ourselves . Looking at our grandparents, like woaaah!! that old and look at there zeal for life. Or those younger siblings playing all day around and we are like how just few years before we too use to be that fun. Stop procrastinating and being lazy. If you are lucky enough to get all those privileges , be grateful and work. This is true happiness, to make those happy who really matter ,ironic that they would be happy if you are truly happy. True happiness comes from working on yourself and grinding for your purpose, now that could be anything. Change your i wanted to be to i am. It's that simple. Don't be a waste when you always knew you can be many more things. Focus. Live up to your full potential.  
It all starts in your mind and ends there.
I hope that helps in opening your eyes and changing the shit in spite of complaining because it annoys me a bit to see many staying stuck like really choosing to be stuck, i hope you start using your brains and in spite of waiting for that big something to shake you up and shit. Stop shitting your own self first ,lol or else waste your time and energy waiting.
 Don't make someone else's crazy about you. Don't let people who don't matter too much, matter to or affect you too much. Quality over quantity. 
Feel grateful and be your best. No matter what. Everything teaches you, learn and grow out of it. Stop being harsh on yourself instead know who you are. Stop complaining. Stop blaming ,not even your own self. Take charge and change, start within yourself. It's all about the habits and hard work. Trust me nobody gives the fuck, like for real. Failures are blessings in disguise. Don't say no before you try. Believe in yourself.


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