Be like a tree🌳, let the dead leaves drop.🍂

Wierd , how i thought i will write in my summer break. But when it comes, the words flow like diarrhoea...(not that good of a pun,i know: who cares though!😜).So here i am.

JUST RANDOM THOUGHTS OR RATHER WISDOM( also few lines heard from here and there which i liked too much that they got stuck in my head) 
TRUTH IS THE SAME ONLY EXPRESSIONS DIFFER
Small things gather and they make a greater impact
There are more than 100 points below,few might even mean the same but the essence is in doing it . As it has been said, no one reads the same book. Hopefully, you might find something valuable in here to actually reflect on and make your life a better one and start actually living rather than just dreaming about it.

• MINE 
• Find your bliss. Follow your bliss.Do more of it and repeat. Choose the job you love. Choose love and understanding in any given situation ,with every person and make your world a lovely one.
• Being nice when everything is in your favor is easy,doing so in chaos is an art.
• Clarity has always been my mantra.
• Healing is the passion,how wonderful it is to watch beings heal one another, either intentionally or unintentionally.
• Your life of comfort won't take long to become your life of regrets. So hustle,grind,grit.
• When you decide something,stick to it,respect your own decision to not be fooled by your own self later. You don't have to prove anything to anyone, not even you just be more of who you really are,know yourself ,that's what that really matters.
• A person who has no respect for his/her own words,friends in need,parents,time and his/her own health can't be trusted.
• Rise above any obstacle, negativity or anything that does you no good,if anything hinders your growth,grow out of it.
• Don't be a fool to think it is your moral duty to heal every person you encounter with even if they are sucking out the every bit of happiness in you ,for this my friend is also a kind of entitlement. Choose your vibes. Stay away from negative people and situations. You can warn them once ,anything more is their work,let people handle their own shit,trust me they will thank you for that later, because sometimes all they need is to be with themselves and find no escape plan but just be with their own damn self.
• Isn't it beautiful how sometimes the smallest of moments and things can say a lot to us and be a catalyst for us to change into our higher self.
• A man taught me to love myself gracefully and i won't let a boy disgrace it.
• Life is simple;don't complicate it just because you like to suffer or chose to think that you do not deserve love or happiness because you know it is better to say that i chose to live alone rather than i wanted to be loved but wasn't before. Don't let your past ruin your beautiful present and future for you.
• Be aware of people who are good to you only when someone is watching, you know what i mean,the faker types,show offs,the liars....for honey you deserve a lot more than that(You deserve what you give out).
• Be you,do you. Do what makes you happy and let others do what makes them happy,it really should not bother you for after all it's all just a show. You do your thing and focus on your inner peace.
• You are in control of your own vibrations.
• We all would feel content and live happy lives,only if we understand the secret ,i.e. Balance.
• Some bonds are made out of love,care and respect; those are the ones to be cherished.
• Let them fool themselves and be a fake hero outside and play the victim shit and switch the positions, you knowing the truth and not making that a big deal be your own real hero.
• It is much easier , if you understand and accept in your heart as soon as anything happens.
• If it is within you, why not make it more, why not fall in love with it and with everything ,with existence.
• It is okay to take your time,rest sometimes; no regrets,no bad feelings for the things once done, now gone.
• Wait for a secure and mature gentleman , for in this case wait is sexy. You in meanwhile focus on becoming a lady you would love to admire ,that is within you ,let it shine for you can be perfect and still a work in progress ,choose to always be a work in progress.
• You like to write? Then fucking write!! oh! but i ain't got the time,but i like doing all the stuff,it makes me feel alive ,but this but that...blah blah blah... STOP THAT!! Because the time you are wasting thinking about it could actually be the time you utilize doing it.
• Sometimes it becomes necessary  to speak up,take stand for yourself; just for them to taste their own medicine,maybe then can they understand not everybody is coming to fight or hate on them instead they really do have the wrong mindset about the whole damn thing and what they need is to find themselves. (Because the deep cause of anger is sadness).
• You have to find your reason by your ownself. Don't let others confuse you or let you think otherwise. 
• Listen to your heart and soul .Do what matters to you and this is how you are gonna be the sunshine in others life, by being one in your own.
• Always think about the long run when making decisions because sometimes just sometimes what you think is good for you now could turn out the worst for you in future and that way you will lose much more than you tried to collect being greedy or thinking you did that for another person,do that another person a favour, choose what you like, don't make anyone the reason of what you decide just to blame them later on,for no one stays the same,at the end it will be you who would be going through the circumstances of YOUR choice.
• It's good for your emotional and mental health to atleast for a bit do something that doesn't necessarily go with your schedule but gives you that pump of energy to keep going. so, next time you feel like dancing,reading,writing,painting,running...anything ,DO IT .
• There's growth in everything if you really observe, even those heartbreaks,failures and every shitty mistake or decision or anything will surely be something you will feel grateful for later in life, so keep exploring,learning ,understanding and most importantly - Growing.
• You don't have to be cautious if you practice what you preach.
• No matter how hard you try or do not try at all, you can't stay the same. You just can't compare your present self and past self and find no difference,even if you want or not,this wonderful changing world will take you to your righteous place.
• Life is an extraordinary thing to experience,be grateful,cherish it ,love it and then watch it blossom like lilies,orchids, roses and it indeed is beautiful.
• Train and master your brain,for everything you are feeling is just a signal (you can take it as a signal from universe or your own body) ,like really if you not feeling good,get up from bed ,take a shower,eat something good,meet people you like or do anything you like- read a book,your feelings change.Learn to live consciously ,everything has a reason behind it,know,learn and change ,it really is that simple. It just needs some practice like any other skill. Also, when you feel low do what might be hard but really makes you happy(like heading to gym or doing that assignment you are procrastinating on) and that way you will be able to look things with more clarity.
• People often confuse their reality by associating their moods with certain things or people, often times root cause is hidden within ,the problem is within,work on that and watch things change magically in your favor.(Now that is what i will call law of attraction,not just thinking positive but actually putting in the work no matter how hard it seems,once you get the pace you will start enjoying the same thing which looked hard to you before,so ACT!!)
• Consistency is what is appreciated and rewarded.
• Choose enlightenment over entitlement.
• True bliss is to know yourself,doubt ,try,understand,get lost for a while and then again know yourself but this time, firmly ,where you know the only person i am and should be answerable to is my ownself.
• People sure can't be talked out of their illusion.
• Strange, how strongly we offer our ideas as if they are the facts,same goes with everyone,i always wonder how can someone be so sure about who they are when they actually don't know how they are gonna act when adversity arises( and i have seen many do exact opposite of what they thought they would do when adversity arises.)
• Do not leave any of your work unfinished because such things linger back in your brain and haunts you.
• Everything and nothing, everyone and noone - what a beautiful perception to put on everything and nothing.
• People who are afraid or frown when things change startle me,you should be happy that they are changing for if not you would have still frowned out of boredom ,that too only if you haven't yet fallen in love with your alonenness.
• No honey, no one made you to do that,you chose to do so(even if you did it subconciously).
• In every situation, there is a space and between that space you can decide ,are you gonna react or respond?
• Be observant enough to not act out of your impulses or triggers.
• Listen to just yourself,for their will only be you later on to blame for the outcome and only then will you choose to change it.
• Life is to learn, live, experience, grow , evolve and be.
• Be as you are and never settle for anything less than that's your perfect.Be anything that brings you peace and makes your soul happy.
• Don't ever go against your core values ,what makes you- 'YOU', never and for no one.
• Elders should understand that what they do or say to their children have an impact on them that too with long term effects.
• Be authentic,most importantly with yourself.
• If you do not respect my time and privacy, i do not care about you.Learn to allow others the freedom they deserve as another being.
• For you only see a part of me i am willing to show you.For a soul like me will never waste it's time in letting anyone know more than they would understand.
• It all comes down to getting affection from the right people.
• Most of the times people doesn't abandon you,you abandon yourself by escaping into drugs and stuff.
• All you need is nature,good food,good books and few beautiful souls(family and friends) to be truly happy.
• Contradictory? Yes i do contradict my words, we all do, according to the requirements of the given situations.For are we really an evolving species when we do not understand the simple rule to adapt.
• Be watchful of what you surround yourself with,what you speak,what you eat,what you listen,what you do or not do.Get in tune with yourself.
• It all comes down to conditioning,i really feel and know that - all that we do, has to do a lot with our mindset,conditioning,perspectives,sub-concious mind and our own love and respect for self and others.
• If you really want to do it on your own, if you love it ,it will never be a burden.
• It will, when it is the time.
• The things you are crying about would become the things you would laugh about later on.(when you come out of that strongly and become wiser,you would laugh on how much energy you put into something where it was not really required.)
• In the end we all go back to where we began.
• At this very moment,sitting all by myself i feel so peaceful that feeling of nothingness yet having everything and being free.
• Your innate primal instincts to help can really kill you sometimes.Be nice, just reciprocate, don't be too nice. Choose to give out your energy on your own to things that matter, especially to you. Vibrations , energies matter, give it a thought.

• OTHERS BUT WITH MY INSIGHT
• There is no self less good deed( tv series friends reference).Because even if you got nothing ,you felt good atleast ,right? 
• Maybe the painful events repeat themselves because you are not learning your lessons.
• We are not in the quest to be happy but to suffer when finding partners for us(childhood idea of love subconciously fitted in by parents and early events.)
• We accept what we think we deserve, understand it and change accordingly (if needed).
• Bring a morgue, but you can't bring the truth to me. I hate people that feel entitled. (p.s. in love with the song,no hate though because you only hate the ones who matter and for me those who matter,i just love them;everything else: forgotten and forgiven, no time for hate here,either love or else i'll be praying for you to get your peace soon).
• You were born alone you have to accept your aloneness ( though said by osho, but i have been preaching this since my childhood, trust me these are the same lines i use to tell my mom around my 6th grade,maybe the impact of our value education class but i personally feel it's just because of the person i am and the one i adore,my dad. Sorry, can't spare this moment without being grateful for the parents and family and friends i got.)
• People who are unaware of their belief system,blame.(They blame it on their parents,surroundings,childhood,etc.)
• Through vulnerability i found my own power.
• Magic is in understanding someone , start with understanding yourself and you will understand it all.
• Messages are in actions,subtle actions.A lot of people are good with words.
• How you feel about yourself is how you -treat others and let them treat you.
• People treat you based on the story you have in your mind they treat you.
• Go through the process, greatness isn't an accident.
• No one can do anything to you without your consent. Don't like it? Stop feeding it the attention it strive for.
• Do not believe ,trust for in beleive i found doubt as the seed.
• Everything happens for a reason, for us to become the person we intend to.
• FROM HERE AND THERE
• If people want you to write better about them,they should have behaved accordingly.
• Don't get your help on others.Help is toxic.
• When an honest man discovers he's been mistaken ,he will either cease being mistaken or cease being honest.
• You can feel anything and still do the work.
• When you forgive, you love; when you love god's light shine on you.
• We are all stardust brought to life,then empowered by the universe to figure itself out and we have just begun.
• Life is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.
• Please take responsibility for the energy you bring into this space.
• Laughter is elixir,laugh at yourself.
• Be the last one to speak.
• Be a good person but don't waste time proving it,for the people who know you, needs no proof and those who need, doesn't really matter.
• Too blessed to be stressed.
• Choose radical self-care.
• Look up and don't ask why.
• I'm the one i have been waiting on.
• Everything for a creative person is just an another idea.
• What a waste it would be to deny somebody of the times to be therselves.
• If you win the argument , everyone has to be your disciple.
• The more you talk about bad ,the more you believe in them.
• Allow your heart to be broken over and over and over until it opens .
•  You may not be aware of it, because you are not aware at all, but when you come to me I am just a mirror. 
• Karma is a good servant but bad master.If desire comes ,wait and look,if it is for your and other's good,pursue or else drop it and move away.
• The prophecy you lead your mind with will ultimately become your reality.
• Things we own , end up owning you.
• Monsters of our own making.
• The content is one who knows that there's no yesterday,no tomorrow but today.
•  She also needs her solitude, for she needs to understand herself.
• Simply see things for what they are.
• Dreams do come true if you believe and work for them.
• The fields are greener in their description than in their actual greenness.
• Silence is more than just a lack of words. It is in silence that we talk the most.
• What comes to you easily will be gone easily.
• Stop planting seeds in the garden of those who won't water them.
• Be obsessively grateful.
• Rather than love,than money,than fame,than faith,than fairness ,give me truth.
• Real generosity towards the future consists in giving all to what is present.
• Stop craving external attention and start creating internal affection.
• Darling, my whole purpose in life is to confuse you.
• Hard to be taken advantage of when you are giving without expectations.
• That’s why she cannot fall in tune with me. And if she cannot fall in tune, it creates a disturbance. She loves me, but her love is still unconscious. If she becomes a little more conscious, she will see it, she will see that to be with me you will have to change many things in you.
• Enjoy the little things.
• Through effort attain to effortlessness.
• We live in a world where focus is more important than even your intelligence.
• Stop resisting seasons of life, feel everything with same intensity.Live each as consciously as possible.
• One has to choose. One has to decide. At each step in life’s journey, there are alternative paths, and you have to choose because you cannot have all the paths and you cannot walk on all the paths. And I am not saying what is right and wrong, I am saying that whatsoever you choose totally is right for you.
• We all are philosophers at some level.
• An addiction to distraction is the death of your creative production.
• The sign of a beautifully functioning mind is that it does not come in it's own way.
• We are all each other's angels and demons.
• Be totally aware but free.
• Never try to fit in. Embrace your quirks.
• Fools build walls , wise build bridges.
• Too much of something is a bad thing.
• You are stronger than you think.
• And then you will know what communion is. Communion is a phenomenon of love, a flowering of love. It has nothing to do with language, with words – not at all; it is silence. 
• There is never a badly cooked cake , i will now call it a pudding. 
• Find your roots and you never will be lost.
• Stop becoming just be.
• How people treat you is the direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.
• Fall in love with yourself first only then can you really love someone else.
• To have a divine discontent means to grow,to search,to seek ,to explore.And life is nothing but an adventure,a constant adventure into the unknown.
• Awareness is the secret key-it transforms.
• You are not your job or the content in your purse, you are all the dancing and all the singing stuff in the world.
• Scepticism is the beginning and the end of the wisdom.
• You give to those whom you love, real answer is - You love those to who you give.
• I write, therefore i am.
• The more you know who you are and what you want,the less you let things upset you.