Self-mastery: The best art to ever learn.

A lot of thoughts go in my mind, all the time. Ok, not starting like a storyline again and this is what happens when i sit to write as if everything i was thinking about just vanished.

It's not that i overthink, it's just that i think a lot about everything just to understand it, that's different; maybe. It has been like that, since childhood and is the very reason i always take every situation and person as if it is for me to disect and look , as if i am using a microscope to do so.

For it is much easier to forgive and change when you actually know and understand how the human brain works. Also, when you take the responsibility and admit that you did have a say in every situation that led you to where you are now, it becomes much easier to change yourself and your surroundings.

It's very hard for us to change ourselves itself. So, just think how hard would it be to change anyone else?  You can't. And if you or that person is with you in the hope that they'll change, stop fooling yourself.Self-mastery is something that you have to do on your own, it comes from inside, ofcourse you fool that's why it is called SELF - Mastery. It requires time, patience and persistence and it's a life long process.

Our choices make us. True bliss is when you enjoy working on yourself and giving up those bad habits, even though they make you feel good for a while but you know eventually are gonna be bad, actually self harming.

Being nice when everything's in your favour is easy but doing so in chaos is an art.

Our brains, intuition, people around us, all have the ability to divert our thoughts and reality. Many times we do not even notice. Even our own memory sometimes play tricks on us. It's all about the perceptions. Choose your perspectives very clearly that later on if something happens you know there's no one to blame but only you responsible. When you get to fool your brain into thinking that you have the power, you can actually feel like you have the resources to change it too.

Self - mastery starts from within, in silence and alonenenss. Though it can also be done anywhere and everytime ,if you are that trained. It simply is like meditation.