Perceptions! Reflections! Illusions!

It's all about our "Perceptions" which might differ from other people's, that doesn't make any one of us wrong. Two different individuals might come to the exact same solution but in very different ways, that's what makes us all unique in our own ways and all we need is to embrace our variations for that very same thing is the proof of our own very being. We all are varied but at genetic level 99.9% same. This in itself should make us realise our value and at the same time our unimportance in reference to everyone. For example-If you are highly sensitive, own it, understand yourself and work accordingly . You do not have to change just evolve, for we Homo sapiens(humans)  ourselves are the product of very old, long and gradual process called evolution. Darwin's theory of "survival of the fittest" is so true in every aspect of our lives. Fittest- flexible, adaptable and evolving one.

Every other person we meet is in one way or the other our "Reflection". Reflection of one of our many sides (it might be completely opposite from their respective trait but many things have common roots). All you need is to resolve your issues on your own, for it's no secret that we all have them, atleast at some point in our lives. Many are not even our own. Many times if we really sit and search deep within, the anger or hurt or anything that someone creates in us is not actually created by them but by our ownselves. The only mistake people make often times is not finding the reason within but without.

"Illusions"
Every story you listen about anything and everything is just someone's views, thoughts or rarely what they really learnt or experienced. Hoping for a thing,  moment or person to be same forever is indeed an illusion. Are you the same person you were before?  Nope, because we all grow, evolve, learn and true bliss is in believing in the beauty of impermanence of things. You won't cherish the same moment with that same intensity if it were to be repeated several times. Don't cling to them for you have an eternity to experience.