Choose individual choice over social influence.

LOOKING AT SKY, SIGNALS? 

As i sit here contemplating;  watching people, their actions and the reasons behind, i realise many of us are influenced by not just our intuition or values but other factors including family, friends, etc.

Often what we think or feel is just some impulses that we think are ours but instead it's all controlled by the media we watch or listen to, thoughts of people we surround ourselves with. And we think that is what WE think( though many a times our own mind play tricks with us), many are instead being played and fooled, sad part?  Most of us don't even realise this before it's too late.

Awareness is enough, nothing else is needed. Pausing, reflecting, introspecting once in a while and taking full responsibility of our present situation (and acting upon it to grow) is the way to a contentful life. For if you keep on blaming others for your own actions, what will change is just the person or in worst case scenario people you put the blame on. On contrary, you will feel more shallow because blaming is just another way to give our ownselves satisfaction that we didn't do wrong when deep down you know you did. Revenge, blaming and stuff could possibly be rewarding but is very short lived; doing so only hurt us more and we come in between our own process of healing. Also, this is the sure way to become your own destroyer by giving circumstances more power on you than your ownself in no time.

So what is needed?  Change of mindset. Knowing that our beliefs could be wrong too. Growth, learning, evolving. It indeed is all about mindset, for anxiousness and excitement are controlled by the same centres in brain. So, to convert the feeling you just have to say it out loud that I'm excited. This is all you need to actually feel excited. At any given moment, you always have the choice to feel in any which way you want.

Just think how many things would have been different only if you were open enough, flexible enough, welcoming enough to change your mindset about any given topic at any given moment.
It's  all about understanding the psychology behind everything. And when you really understand the reasons that oh okay!  People often times are controlled by their situations, so couldn't handle them or oh okay!  They aren't that mature or woke to understand and take responsibility for thier actions. It really becomes easy and feels good.

All that is needed is you being truthful to your ownself. Uncertainty is actually a good thing. It's always better to be around people with a better, wide mindset. Who are knowledgeable enough to know that universe is far beyond this typical  word used way too often unnecessarily - "ME or I".
Discover, explore, grow, learn and be happy.