Do your thaanngggg!!!!

And i mean thing not thong, you understood, ofcourse! Life and everything that's beyond and in between.

Some read, listen and watch stuff for awakening . On the other hand,  some just live and respond to whatever life throws at them. So, who wins?  Everyone and noone. There is no sure path to anything. Like there are no mistakes just experiences and lessons. You might listen to as many spiritual leaders as you want, still you will attain whatever  you are searching for at your own pace, in your own way and trust me there's no wrong way. Osho, Alan Watts, J. Krishnamurti, Abraham Twerski,Simon Sinek,  Robin Sharma, Vanesaa Van Edwards,  Teal Swan, Ralph, Brendon Burchurd ,Mathew Perry, Esther, Gary Vaynerchuk , Paulo and the list goes on and on. All these philosophers, guides, coaches, authors, etc, etc.. and their work(wisdom) for us on our fingertips, all over the internet or books. Then our own life experiences and people around us - our parents, friends and everyone. So much to learn, so much to correct,  so much to achieve, so less time, right?  Is all of this really that complicated?  No, it's simple. You seek answers outside.That's what you are doing wrong, the only way out is in.  And then your real guru is YOU. The only person you need to understand is you.

World and it's people truly are growing at fast pace, they use their minds more often now, we see atheists, we meet people keen to explore and learn, to debate on their differing personal views on anything and everything be it politics, technology, spirituality, religious beliefs, etc. There is a growing understanding of respecting others views and yet being true to your own values. That is what world needs the most right now, this acceptance,  understanding and freedom. And it indeed is an amazing thing to experience. 

It's like this spark of enlightenment. But what does all of these people like osho have in common?  They are authentic to themselves. They know what they are doing, they often show and tell you the truth,  that they are just fooling you ,as osho says my whole purpose is to confuse you. But what does he mean by this? The answer is simple. Confuse you until you find and be true to yourself because only then you can be real with others and being genuine is must for inner peace. How do you achieve it?  Knowing  yourself. And people like him are far better than priests who are just forcing their beliefs on you and condition your brain in a way that you get convinced, you are weak and things are not in your control and you need somebody.  All this is true too ( in a way), everything is contradictory if you really watch but then same sentence can mean two very different things. Not everything will be in your control true ,but you can be,  your thoughts, feelings can be at peace. How?  Simple. By just living every bit of it, not questioning, not suppressing any emotion, just diving in and giving it the attention it wants, for once and all, sit beside it, respond don't react, just watch your feelings ,your thoughts, they are just some energy, they are not you. Do not let a fleeting moment ,thought or feeling: define you.

Believe in impermanence of everything. Find your bliss, follow it, live in the moment. Evolve, grow and change; for that's the universal law. Do not get attached to anything, not even your self image; for whatever is growing will logically be contradictory to it's past self.  Nourish your body and nurture your mind. Forgive yourself and others often, be kind to everyone including you. And again, how do you attain this?  By giving right attention to what needs it in you, do what you feel like,  what resonates with you, accept you and others. For no one's right or wrong, it's just the situations and how we handle them. Give your fucks to what really matters to you.

At last, i would like to end by one of osho's quote: 

Complete opposite of love is not hate, it's psuedo- love, the love that pretends to be love, but is not.

And to add on a bit;  hate is more authentic than this pseudo love, atleast it's unadulterated. Why so?  For no one teaches you about hate and so much about love that love itself sometimes loses it's credibility. 

Yeah, this blog could be a mixed bag, but seekers and learners always find there part to reflect on and then again, you will only understand something truly only if you have experienced it, so see what clicks with you. 

And where does all of this came from, my own insight?  As i raised the question at the beginning, by doing everything and nothing, that is by gaining the wisdom from others and from my own experiences,knowing what resonates well with my core values and touches my soul.Also,by being aware of how i work better and how can i make sensible decisions and be peaceful with others?  That is by being peaceful with my ownself first. So, don't run from your self not even from your demons, learn to tame them, to tame your mind simply by listening and knowing your why's. And you should be really thankful to people who disturbs or confuses you for they make you think and the ones you call your friends who console you would probably not let you think for yourself ever. It's your job to differentiate wisely. Awareness is the key. Balance is the key, think when required and live when required. Everything has a price that's why only then that something is valuable. Know what to take serious and what as fun. For all answers are within, only if you have enough patience.